Wednesday, January 26, 2011

On Being Black in China


So here's the conversation we have about our son in China.

Chinese friend:  Is he your son?
Us:  Yes
Friend:  Impossible.  He's so black.
Us:  Yes, he's adopted.
Friend:  He's what?
Us:  Adopted 
Friend: What?
Us:  Adopted, like from an orphanage (even though he's not)
Friend:  Ohhhhh!  You have such good hearts.
Us:  Thank you
Friend:  So what country is he from? India?
Us:  No, he is American.
Friend: Impossible.  He's so black.
Us:  Yes, his birth father is black and his birth mother is . . . 
Friend: American?
Us:  No, they are both American
Friend:  (confused look)
Us:  He's like Obama.
Friend:  Ohhhhhh!  He's very smart.

5 comments:

Across the Miles Photography said...

That may be the funniest conversation I've ever heard!!!!!

nana jo said...

I can so picture that conversation in my head - miss you all. red and yellow, black and white - you are all precious to me

gogovivi said...

Hats off to all the confusion!

Jen said...

I laughed out loud.

Christine said...

Not many people are given the Call to Confusion. What an honor!