Reposted from October 2011: This is one of my favorite Culture Blend memories of faking Chinese in China.
I got blasted with a dose of my own indignance this week.
Chinese is tonal. If you haven’t tried to learn it then that means nothing to you. It’s pointless trivia, like “celery has negative calories” or “bats always turn left when they exit a cave”. All true (verified via the internet) but knowing it adds zero value to your life (maybe negative . . . like celery . . . and calories). If you have tried to learn Chinese however, then the overwhelming significance of these three words just made you vomit a little bit in your mouth.
A Quick Chinese Lesson for the Vomitless:
If you say “ma” it means “mother” (stink – Chinese is easy! what are you whining about?). However, if you say “ma” it means “horse” and if you say “ma” it means “anesthesia” and if you say “ma” it means “hemp” and if you say “ma” it means “tingly and numb” and if you say “ma” it means “sesame” and if you say “Ma” you may be speaking to a guy named Mr. Ma . . . or you may be trying to speak to Mr. Ma but you’re actually calling him “Mr. Sesame” and if you’re introducing him to your mother you may actually be saying “Hey Mr. Sesame this is my horse” or “this is my anesthesia” or “this is my hemp” for which you could be arrested and possibly executed (see here for more on that) all because you used the wrong tone.
It’s the most felt challenge of living as a foreigner in China. Not so much the threat of execution but the daily, blood boiling, teeth grinding irritation of knowing that you are saying the right word and getting nothing but a blank stare. I have seen some of the sweetest, tenderest, most loving souls I know transformed into screaming, blubbering freaks because the taxi driver just can’t understand their well rehearsed Chinese.
“SESAME STREET! YOU MORON! SESAME STREET! SESAME STREET! SESAME STREET! CAN YOU PLEASE TELL ME HOW TO GET TO SESAME STREET?!!”
And the driver stares blankly because all he hears is, “Mother Street! Horse Street! Anesthesia Street! Can you please tell me how to get to Tingly and Numb Street?!”
Hence the vomit.
The result is a heavy dependence on context. Maybe my tones are off but if I can get the surrounding words to make sense then generally the Chinese listener will graciously figure it out. “OOHH – This is not really his horse, in fact she is not a horse at all . . . he probably means his mother.” However the Ma of all frustrations is when the context is crystal clear, the phonetics are spot on, the tones are just slightly off and there is still a total failure to communicate. “I SO know that I am SO close so why can’t you understand me?!”
Checking into a hotel in Beijing last week I got the tables turned on me. I was holding up the line as the front desk girl and I flipped through my family’s passport books searching for the right visas and stamps. Her English was rough but I was catching most of it. My Chinese was rougher but she was gracious. Finally we got the visa issues settled and she looked me straight in the eye and said . . .
“How about birds?”
You know that moment when you have no clue what is going on but your mind races to make something up? I got stuck there. I was certain I misheard her so I questioned, “I’m sorry?”
In about three seconds this was my thought process, *are there birds in the room? I don’t think I want birds in my room. I’ve seen birds for sale on the street, do they sell birds here? Is there some type of giveaway that I don’t know about? This is a holiday weekend, maybe they give birds to customers for Chinese National Day. That would be really strange considering this is an airport hotel and most of the customers will be flying home soon. Do they expect us to take birds home on the airplane with us? You can’t do that. I know China’s basic view on animal rights is different than where I come from but really? Birds? In my suitcase? They are so going to stop me at security. I wonder what color they are.*
“I’m sorry . . . what?”
She repeated, “Birds.”
“Do you want one or two birds in your room.”
I was so thoroughly confused. *My two year old son will never go to sleep if we have any birds in our room. Why would you put birds in my room?!*
I could sense her frustration but still smiling she said, “Chuang.”
Dear China: I’m sorry for snapping at your taxi drivers and thinking bad thoughts about you because you don’t understand my tones. You win.